Life’s a Song and Dance
Music is the international language, the “religion” for all. It does not separate; rather, it unites us as one. Music is salvation. It cultivates our character, enlivens our spirits, expands our knowledge, and seasons our outlook, causing us to grow as human beings. In the words of Ludwig van Beethoven, “The vibrations on the air are the breath of God speaking to man’s soul. Music is the language of God.”
Song and dance inspire us. Dance communicates various emotions, like happiness, celebration, beauty, joy, regret, and sorrow. Think of the grace, sophistication, and fluidity of ballet contrasted with the risqué excitement found in the can-can. Then consider the great seduction, desire, and intimacy articulated in the romance of the tango, compared to Cuba’s lively Latin salsa, with its swaying, energetic hip movements designed to mimic life’s tempo.
The music and dance of America’s history reflect the culture and politics of the times. The classic jitterbug and Charleston, filled with fast-paced bouncing and steps, spoke of the frivolity of the time. No 1960s dance party was complete without the twist, a departure from ‘50s-style dances. Break-dancing echoed the physicality of the ’80s and ’90s, then hip-hop entered the arena, the newest form of expression an outgrowth of the attitudes and energy of the streets.
Life is a dance. We change partners on occasion, but we generally stick with the one that we feel most in sync with. Sometimes, the steps are complicated; at other times, they’re as simple as walking side by side.
Love is a simple emotion we’re all capable of experiencing and sharing, but we tend to make it complicated. It’s more than mere infatuation, attraction, or desire. Instead of seeking what we truly need, we tie ourselves up with notions of love that might be superficial or defined by others rather than our own beliefs. Do we believe love is financial security? “He makes a great living. I will always be taken care of.” Is it looks or sex appeal? “She’s beautiful. I’m lucky she notices and wants to be with me.” Is it shared interests or goals? “We both want children. We both love to work out, travel, and shop. We must be compatible.”
Love doesn’t require exhaustive entertainment or any conditions attached, but instead is satisfied with simply coexisting in each other’s presence.
Love in all its forms is a key theme that runs throughout “Jack in the Box.” In particular, in The Dance, I talk about the loves of my life and how each one helped shape me. I hope you’ll read it and follow up with the questions for consideration in Passion Outside the Box in The Guide in Box IV.